3 Common Kinks (And Why You Need To Try Them)
The sexuality of most people is kinkier than you think. But because most times we keep things behind closed doors, we don’t realize how common some kinks are. The naughtiness of some of your friends or colleagues might surprise you. If you haven’t indulged in your fantasies so far because you felt like they are too deviant, let me shine some light into your darkness. Here are the three most common kinks people have but never admit to them.
- Anal sex
Anal sex is one of the most discussed kinks out there, but most of the time when people talk about it is how much they are against it. But the idea of anal sex is wrongly understood, mostly because unexperienced people had bad experiences with it. Girls who had the luck to be with a man who is thoughtful and know what he’s doing in the bedroom are absolutely in love with it. If you haven’t tried it yet because you were too scared of the pain or accidents, it’s understandable. But you owe it to yourself and to your partner to research on the matter and step over the fears. It all has to do with preparation before you do the did and with a proper anal sex foreplay. We discussed a lot on this subject in our anal sex guides. Our blog has articles on toys you can use, different types of lubes, positions, preparations and anal sex techniques that will make this kink a wonderful experience.
- Sex With Multiple Partners
Threesomes are not just fantasies of men who dream of banging two chicks at once. You might be surprised how many girls have fantasies about being dominated by two men. Lots of women dream of themselves surrounded by guys in gang bangs. But there are many girls with a stronger bisexual side who want to have a threesome with their lover and another girl. If you also dream of having multiple partners at once, you’re not alone and you should totally try that at some point in your life. You have lots of options here. You can either join a couple for a threesome, or have a threesome with your partner. But if you choose the second option, make sure your relationship is mature enough to withstand this first threesome experience. If that happens, I’m sure you will explore this kink even further.
- Humiliation
Being humiliated is mostly a fetish of girls, but lots of guys also dream about a merciless dominatrix to put them in place during a femdom session. There is something about our brain that turns us on when our partners are treating us like garbage. As long as is consensual and just in the form of kink, being humiliated and degraded can be orgasmic. In this kink you can experiment with dirty talk, domination, spanking, slapping, spit play, feet worshiping, face sitting and much more. The possibilities are endless, as long as you have a safe word.
There are so many other kinks that are popular amongst couples, but these are the ones that even your parents might indulge into. They seem very out of the ordinary, but for some people they are just as common as oral sex. If you have such fantasies in your head, it’s time to act on them. You’re not the only one that’s kinky. Don’t be afraid of your sexuality.