7 Things To Do With Your Partner (Now You've Got Them Tied Up)
So, you want to get into bondage. I hope you’ve been researching and practicing knots and ties, plus the best and most comfortable positions to tie your partner in. I also hope that you took all safety measures and that you already agreed on the safe word. But now you need some advice or ideas on what to do to them since you have them in such a submissive position. Here are my favorite bondage play activities that I think both you and your partner might enjoy. In this list of sex play ideas, you will find activities for both when your tied up partner is a man and for when they’re a woman.
- Edging
The best thing you can do when you are a woman playing femdom games with your tied-up man is to delay his gratification. We talked a lot about edging on this blog. What you’ll need to do is play with his cock and balls, stroke it, suck it, ride it, but anything you do, stop when you feel like he is cumming. This is going to drive him mad and when you finally allow him to have an orgasm, it will be an explosive one.
- Orgasm Torture
Orgasm torture is the opposite of edging and it really is what it seems. For this you need one good vibrator, I recommend a Magic Wand, and one tied up girl. You want to use the vibrator to give her an orgasm and once she had it just don’t stop. Keep that bad boy on her clit until she starts screaming and has another orgasm. And keep going until she can’t take it no more. Some girls even start crying, but as long as she doesn’t shout the safe word, you can just keep going.
- Face Sitting
If you have your man tied up on a bed or punishment bench facing up, it’s time to use his face as a pleasure sit. Most men love it when their woman is aggressively sitting on their faces. Basically, you can smother him with your booty until you reach your orgasm and he will love any second of it.
- Tickle Torture
This is a kink for both submissive men and women, as long as they are ticklish. It might not sound like much, but tickle torture is a great training method of submission and giving up control. It’s the thing you need to experience with before impact play and it gives the dominant partner a nice feeling of power.
- Flogging
What kind of BDSM session doesn’t have some impact play. If you are new into this kink, you should hold back on using whips just yet. Flogging is a saver alternative. But before you start the impact play, make sure you know the areas of the body that can take some hits. If you don’t feel like you can correctly control a flogger, a riding crop is a great alternative for a more precise hit.
- Prostate Massage
If you’ve discussed prostate massages before, but your man never came around to let you play with his booty, now it’s the time to put your fingers in there and milk his prostate. Most men are backing out of the idea because they are ashamed, they like a bit of anal play, but if you have them in a submissive position, they will use it as an excuse to let you do it to them. As long as they don’t say the safe word, you’re in the clear to play with their booty.
- Rough Anal
This is only for the couples who already have experimented with anal before. And if you want to have a rough bondage anal experience with your partner, make sure to put a butt plug inside they booty before you start tying them up. That will prep their booty for action, so you will be able to jump straight to drilling, without interrupting the tension of a bondage experience with anal foreplay.
There are so many other kinks and bondage play ideas you can try on your partner. Maybe you tied kinkier ones and if you did, we would like to hear about them. But in any case, make sure you’re partner consents to your domination before you start doing things to them and make sure you respect the safe word. With that being said, enjoy your bondage kink!