Five Ways To Get Kinky

Naughty thoughts are swarming your mind? Don’t worry! Being wild with your partner is just the natural course of the relationship. Just like the feelings between you, sex has to evolve, and it has to take you in a point in which you could fulfill all of your fantasies with the person that understands and accepts you the most, as long as you return the favor. If you are ready to liberate your kinky play in the bedroom, here are five ways to get kinky that will help any couple transition from standard vanilla sex to fantasy fulfilling nights of wild fun. 

1. ROLE PLAY

We start with the least extreme kinky ideas for sexy relationships of this list. Although role-play sounds easy, it’s not that easy to do. Not everyone can get into character, but once the partners assume their role, the sex can get really intense. Amongst the scenarios that are most played in the past years we find many couples reporting having fun with taboo family ones, in which she plays the naughty aunt of the horny step-mom. But it can be a bit awkward at first. That’s why you could really use a blindfold for the first plays. Not seeing your partner helps feeling more relaxed in playing your role.

2. ANAL PLAY

Every man wants to have the booty of his lovely girl, but not all girls are willing to give it to them. That should really change in a long-term relationship that’s looking for new kinky ideas, because anal sex not only that will make him happy, but it can be very satisfying for her if done right. And doing it right is not hard at all. The entire secret lies in the warm up. That’s why men should get used to eating booty. After a good and wet lick, a session of fingering should be in place, followed by the insertion of an anal plug. Let that in for a bit while you go on with the foreplay. When you pull the butt plug out and start doing it, she will feel much more relaxed and comfortable and she might even achieve her very first assgasm.

3. BONDAGE

Since this is a BDSM themed article, we couldn’t let bondage out. But if you are just starting to explore kinky sex ideas, maybe don’t go for the rope bondage just yet. There are plenty of restrain kits which are easier to use and more efficient, plus tat your partner will be safer. If you really want to get kinky, you can go for a straitjacket.

4. IMPACT PLAY

If you and your partner already developed a dom/sub relationship, then you might introduce pain in your sex games. Well, this is a very important step in any relationship. Many couples are enjoying the pleasure given by controlled pain, but that’s only because they do it right. First, you need the right tools for the job. You can choose from paddles, floggers, whips, riding crops and so much more. Then you must control your intensity and know your partners threshold. And then you must set and obey the safe word.

5. PEGGING

Pegging is the kink in which roles change and the girl straps on a dildo to get behind her man and please him in anal ways. More and more men have come to terms that anal sex can be pleasurable for straight guys and they ask their girlfriends to do it. So, if you think your relationship is intimate enough to fulfill such kinky sex idea, have at it!