How To Feel Great While You're Talking Dirty

Dirty talking is one of the most common fantasies of both men and women, but it seems like not so many couples know how to initiate or how to carry on such bedroom activity. However, we are here to help. All you need to know is that there are different ways of dirty talking. You can assume a role which will help you get all those dirty words flowing. We put together a little glossary that will organize your dirty talk, so that you will know better how to dirty talk with confidence. 

 

 

The Dominant Dirty Talking

Dirty talking is not something you start with. At least not when we’re discussing dirty talking for beginners. This should come as a completion for something naughty that’s already taking place. When you are in the dominant position, you want to start your dirty talk after your partner has started moaning. You need to get them in the zone and make them feel like you took control. Only after that you can start calling them names and use your imagination to make them feel like your slave through nasty words. 

Dirty Talk As A Sub

The sub has an easier time dirty talking, because anything they say will charge the dominant partner to express even more power over them. When you’re in the submissive position, dirty talking is easier if the target of the verbal abuse is yourself. Tell them to use you, tell them what you deserve and how good it feels to be dominated by your partner. Use dirty talking to encourage you to give their best while pleasing you. 

 

 

Dirty Talking in Roleplay

When you are role playing, you need to find all kinds of tricks to immerse you and your partner deeper into characters. Besides outfits and scenarios, it also helps if you include dirty talking into the mix. To help you stay on track, just follow the plot of the roleplay. For example, if you roleplay taboo family fantasies, talk about how wrong it feels to be fucking your stepsister or stepfather. The fact that you already have a plot to talk about will make it easier to come up with dirty talking. The fact that each of you has a role, so you’re not really you, will help you depersonalize your partner and detach yourself from the respect or the shyness you have towards them, especially if you experiment with dirty talk for the first time 

Fantasy Dirty Talking

Some of the fantasies we have are son twisted and naughty that it’s hard for us to talk about them in a regular setting. After you’ve tried some dirty talking with your partner and dialogue during sex is part of the routine, you can try your hand at some fantasy dirty talking. This is basically confessing to your wildest fantasies while engaged in hot love making. The pleasure and naughtiness of the moment will make you both more open to sex talk. Some men, and even some women, also enjoy indulging in listening the sex stories that their partners had with other people in their past. 

So, there you have it. The basic forms of dirty talking. Knowing in which situation you fall will help you figure out what to say during sex. If you’ve never done it before, start light and pay attention to the reactions of your partner. If they like it, you will notice, because they will probably say nothing but moan more. And if they don’t like it, you will definitely notice it. I wish they will enjoy it and that you will enjoy yourself too!