The Punishment: Beginners Guide to BDSM (Part Two)

We’ve taught you all about the teasing for BDSM in the part one of this guide and now it’s time to learn about punishment. If you introduced BDSM to the bedroom and you put the bases of your dom/sub relationship, it’s time to learn how to punish your new slave. This is BDSM for advancers, so before you get into it, make sure that you have read out other guides on how to use certain toys and how to enjoy impact play in a safe and consensual manner. Also, you can use some of the toys in the part one to punish your partner when they need discipline. Now let’s jump into the kinkier BDSM ideas and discover which toys are best for punishments and how to use them.

 

 

The Bondage Bed Sets

If you want to get into more hardcore punishment, you need a complete restraining kit, because things can get really intense and if your partner twitches around during impact play, you can end up hitting an area of their body you’re not supposed to hit. If you aren’t ready for ropes, you can always go for a bondage bed set.  

The Fetish Fantasy Bed Restraint Bondage Kit is fairly easy to use and install. It goes quick on any type of bed and it fits any size of mattress. You can use it in multiple restrain positions and it locks around the wrists with Velcro, so it’s extremely safe for any couple.

 

The Kinky Position Restrains

If your idea of punishment is BDSM rough sex, then you will really enjoy a restrain kit that will allow you to lock your partner in a position from which they are completely vulnerable to your carnal desires. Most position restrains kits come with instructions on how to use them in any potion they were designed for, so you won’t have to know a lot about BDSM before you jump into this tool of punishment.

A perfect position restrain kit is the Fetish Fantasy Series Deluxe Position Master W-cuffs, because it lets you tie down both the arms and the legs of your partner, while it also comes with a harness to make her feel comfortable in those positions.

 

The Straitjacket

Now for a more advanced restrain method and one that’s recommended for a dom/sub relationship that’s more advanced and more permissive with kinkier things, let’s talk about the straitjacket. This is for couples who really take the slave game seriously. This time is not as much about kink and fun, as it is about a more serious BDSM lifestyle in which the role play is done on a more serious note, with the members staying in character for a prolonged period of time. 

 

The Open Mouth Gag

The open mouth gags are for oral punishment sessions. This device is ideal if you want to train your partner in the art of deepthroating, but it can also be used as a nice accessory to their slave outfit. It’s nothing but a metallic ring that’s strapped around the back of the head and that will keep the mouth wide open for the entire time it’s in.

Fetish fantasy Extreme Open Mouth Spider Gag is a pretty cool toy for those who never used one before. It’s simple and safe, but it also looks really kinky on both girls and boys.

 

The Crop

We already talked about floggers in the previous part of our guide, and you might wonder why we feature something that looks less scary than that in the part in which we talk about punishment. Well, because the crop can be the idea punishment tool for the master. That’s because it’s easier to control and it can get in those tight places where punishment is most efficient. I’m talking about genital impact play, a kink that pushes the limits of pain and pleasure. If you want to try genital impact play, the crop should be the first toy you start with. And just as we told you in other guides, the secret is to start with low intensity levels and increase as your partner feels more comfortable.

 

 

The Cock Cage

Now let’s talk about some toys that are designed for his punishment. A kink that becomes more and more popular in the past years is cock caging. A girl will feel a lot of power when she is in the role of mistress, knowing that she can control the erection of her slave.

But if you want to really go through the roof with the pleasure, you can go for a more extreme toy, like the Master Series Oppressor Chastity Strecher With Anal Intruder Hook. The name describes this toy pretty well.

 

The Sparkler

If you thought the punishment for him can’t get any rougher, think again. You can use electro shocks on him. This form of punishment is one of the most advanced ones a couple could engage in. With the PES Big Boy Sparkler you can give him electric shocks from the inside of his shaft. But before you start using this toy, make sure he is comfortable with urethral insertions.