So You Wanna Play in Public?

From car to bedroom, or bedroom to car, we’ve all ventured outside of our normal fuckpad in some way. Sex between couples has to start somewhere, and these origin points often stay a part of the rotation. For instance, if you first went down on your partner in a movie theater parking lot, chances are that they’ll be expecting road/parked head now and again. 

So why not venture out more? Sex play in public can be more than a fantasy for couples (sorry, solo acts—public play is probably a bad idea) if both individuals are comfortable with the idea. While the risk of getting caught can actually get you into trouble, there’s still a way to safely practice public play, but with the adrenaline rush intact. 

Finding locations that won’t result in you getting arrested? Yeah, that’s important. Play after dark, look for business districts that close down early. It’s not glamorous, but most of these areas have large dumpster to hide behind, or recycling bins. Try a quick session out—just watch where you step. Parks are an option, but you’ll have to really keep an eye out for passer-bys. Look for clean ditches, or hilly areas that two bodies can fit behind. Yes, there will be bugs, but playing in public is meant to be an urgent session. It’s not like you can stay the night (unless you need to satisfy your morning dew fetish). 

Now a bummer note, but an important one: do not, I repeat, do not choose a place that’s frequented by the underage. Depending on where you live, the distance between lovers and school buildings are enforced by law, so…don’t be stupid. You have to be considerate of other people, and not cause them any trauma by accidentally showing them your o-face without consent. Handcuffs are nice and kinky, but not in this scenario. 

Speaking of consent, if you’re lucky, your local club has a dungeon, or private areas. That’s always worth checking out, especially if you get off on the idea of voyeurism, which goes hand-in-hand with public play. This can be a great domain to test your mettle by putting on a show, plus vodka! 

Just remember, if these options sound too stressful you can try your backyard out first, or pitch a tent at a local campground to knock boots under the stars. Maybe eventually you’ll reach a higher comfort level, and give public play a shot.